If you clicked on this article, chances are you are what some might call an advanced sex toy user. You may also be seeking new experiences and ways to enhance your pleasure. Here is a little something to help you explore the stimulating world of advanced sex toys safely. Happy exploring!
Exploring the limits and boundaries of your sexual pleasure is one of the greatest things you will ever do for yourself. Knowing what your body likes and what it responds to has many benefits.
Also, did I mention how fun and exciting it is?
That rush you feel when you find the right toy and it hits all the right spots will never get boring. Sexual exploration and the use of sex toys are important for solo play and intimacy with your partner or partners.
But before we get into the fun stuff. Let’s lay down a few ground rules!
- Always remember safety first! If you are exploring with a partner, always make sure to have a conversation about consent, and remember that at any point during play, consent can be revoked, and that is okay.
- Always make sure your sex toys are clean.
- Pay attention to your partner’s needs.
- Always check in with your partner and make sure that they are still enjoying themselves.
- Never use the same sex toy on multiple partners without cleaning it. If you are exploring with multiple partners, put a condom over your toy and change it when switching partners or positions. Or, you could discuss beforehand hygiene practices before doing the deed.
- Always remember lube is your friend.
Sex toys can do many things that humans cannot do. So, do not be shy or afraid to say what you want or to explore to your heart’s content. The benefits of sex toys and how much they liberate you are many. You become more confident, orgasms are guaranteed, and best of all, you know what your body likes and how to please it.
1. Push your pleasure boundaries during Solo Play
Masturbation is something that millions of people do around the world. It is one of the most intimate and thrilling experiences because it not only gives you pleasure but also teaches you what your body needs. Solo play is great, but it can even be better with a toy. It heightens your pleasure and helps you reach the big O. It is great for stress relief, helps you sleep better, and is so much fun.
Being familiar with sex toys is a bonus when you want to push the boundaries of your pleasure. You are already in a great position as you know what you like. So the next thing to do if you are exploring further and wanting to try new things or toys is to figure out what kind of stimulation you want. Are you looking for internal and external stimulation, clitoral stimulation, external clitoral stimulation, penis, prostate, or anal stimulation?
Chances are if you are reading this article, you are an advanced user of sex toys and are looking for a toy that will increase the thrill and find new and more pleasurable ways to explore your body. There are many advanced sex toys for men and women to choose from such as:
- For women: A squirting king-sized or thrusting dildo, glass/stainless steel dildos, nipple stimulators, finger vibrators, or sex toys with a mechanical tongue, to name just a few.
- For men: A vibrating prostate massager, a penis massager, a masturbator for men, a vibrating cock ring, or butt plugs or anal hooks.
Always remember safety first. In your excitement to try these toys, always be careful of taking on more than you can handle. Make sure that you choose the right materials and always make sure to clean your toys.
2. Exploring with your Partner
Sex toys are a great way to boost your sex life and add new and exciting options to your sex life. This is especially true if you are in a long-term relationship. The great thing about incorporating sex toys into your sex life as a couple is that you open yourself to new feelings and sensations, which can greatly strengthen the bond between you two.
Sex toys are also a great thing to add to your sex repertoire if you are struggling in the bedroom. Sex toys like cock rings increase the intensity of orgasms and are more likely to induce a harder and longer erection for men, prolonging pleasure and guaranteeing satisfaction. The added benefit of adding sex toys to your lovemaking creates a channel for open and honest communication, which can trickle down to other areas of your relationship that need attention.
So, if you are looking to explore your sexual boundaries safely, here are a few suggestions that will lead you to the ultimate pleasure:
- Ball-gags
- Sex swings, sex chairs/sofas, or sex pillows
- Chastity belts
- Nipple clamps
- A couples vibrator
- A harness
- A thrusting dildo
- Blindfolds, hoods, bondage hoods, or isolation
- Chokers
- Mouth spreaders
- Spreader bars
- Electric wands
- A penis pump or a penis sleeve
- Pegging dildos
- Finger vibrators
- Remote-controlled panty vibrators, butt plugs, or cock rings
As a couple, the more advanced your sex play becomes, the more specific you need to be about what pleasure you are seeking so that you are both on the same page as to what kind of toys to get. Also, communicating what you are looking for is a great way to find out what your partner’s limits are, what they are comfortable with, and how far they are willing to go.
TIP: If you want to take your sex toy exploration to the next level, you and your partner can try adding a sex doll to your sex play. Sex dolls come in many shapes and sizes, and you could help your partner choose the doll. BBW sex dolls would be a great place to start because of their body type. They have the most realistic body representation, are versatile, and can accommodate various sex positions while ensuring comfort. The added curves also serve to enhance satisfaction. BBW sex dolls are a great addition to a couple’s sex life because they allow you to explore and test the boundaries of what you like and don’t like and how far you’re willing to go safely.
3. The More the Merrier: Exploring with Multiple Partners
Contrary to what happens on porn sites or in the movies, threesomes or group sex can be a tricky and sometimes awkward experience to navigate. That is why ensuring that all parties communicate their needs and desires is the best way to go about things. If you are someone who is into having multiple partners during sex, then chances are you have sex toys and you are on the lookout for something to elevate your experience.
Well then, look no further because you are about to be guided toward exploring your ultimate desires and experiencing waves of pleasure. The beauty of this experience is that since various people are involved, there are numerous things to try out and multiple ways to reach satisfaction.
A few ground rules to remember: Always ensure that your sex toys are clean. If you can, ask this beforehand; ask your partners what kinds of material they prefer for their sex toys to make sure that everyone will be catered for. Safety is the most important, so with multiple partner sex, you want to make sure that there are enough toys available to avoid using the same toy, which could put you at risk for STDs.
Now for the good stuff. Here are some toys to consider for you and your partners:
- Remote-controlled cock rings and butt plugs
- Glass and stainless steel dildos
- King-size dildo
- BDSM sex toys (a thinner cock for more direct pleasure, chokers, mouth spreaders, bondage hoods, collars)
- Ball gags
- Nipple clamps and nipple stimulators
- Thrusting and pegging dildo
- A rabbit vibrator
- Impact toys such as floggers, paddles, canes, whips, and electric wands
- Bondage tape
The world of sex toys is wonderful, with endless possibilities for pleasure. There are so many ways to achieve pleasure and enhance the quality of sexual relationships with yourself and with others. Always remember safety first when exploring, and don’t be afraid to explore the unknown and communicate exactly what you need. Happy exploring!
